It’s a bit hard writing about yourself without coming across as being vain, self-indulgent or bloated – my ego, that is. You see, lately, something changed in my life that caused other people, especially the opposite sex, to notice me in ways they never did before.
And although that’s a good thing, I have the dilemma of not knowing what caused this sudden change. I am a young looking 50 years old Caucasian male, 6ft, about 180Lbs, in better than average shape and with shoulder-length wavy, dark brown hair. This is not a singles or “pick-me-up” ad, so don’t respond. My bio only serves to show you that I am an average guy.
For some unexplainable reason, the last year or so, men, but especially women seem to take a sudden and keen interest in me. Whether I am at the market, in a coffee line or just walking about, out of nowhere someone will give me a smile, say hi and start a casual chat. Suddenly, women of all ages seem to be attracted to me for reasons I can’t understand.
Don’t think I am not flattered by this new occurrence; I most certainly am. I just wish I could put my finger on what causes this seemingly over-night change. Although I am an attractive man, I don’t think of myself as being overly handsome or good-looking. I don’t wear expensive clothes and I don’t drive a super-duper car. I am not getting it.
Most men reading this right now will probably say: “Man, I wish I had that problem!” and probably consider me foolish to even bring this topic up. Don’t get me wrong, I am enjoying my new found “status”. I just would like to know what caused this to happen.
As a young lad I can’t remember this ever to be the case where women approached me. It was always the other way around and more often than not I got turned down. Throughout my life I had rarely, if ever, women pursue me. Always, it was I who had to do the hunting. And most of the time I had little or no success.
Yet lately all that changed inexplicably. There isn’t a day that goes by without me being approached by women of all ages and all distinctions. In fact, even men seem to have taken a sudden interest in me. Although I prefer women, no offense, I am delighted by this change in “recognition”. Still I am perplexed as to what is causing this attraction.
It leads me to wonder: “What am I doing different? Am I behaving in a way I am consciously not aware of that causes this reaction? Has my chemistry been altered in some way?” I really would like to know. As much as I consider this a positive thing in my life I would like to find out the cause of it.
As much as I enjoy it, it also scares me: “How do I respond? How do I behave? Should I take advantage of my newly found popularity? Is this occurrence temporarily? If so, how will I react there after?”
So, if you know anything about or have a similar experience to mine, I would like to hear from you. Maybe you can help me solve my dilemma. I certainly appreciate any input you can give me.
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