Women often tell themselves that they need to keep some secrets from their men. Well, the inverse is true as well. There are certain things that your woman should never find out about you. After all, you always need to maintain some leverage in your relationship. Here are the few things your girl should never know about you.
Your conquest count
Look, you know how many chicks you've bagged and it's probable that some of your friends do, too. But that's where this circle of information should close. It's not necessary to give your current lover a running tally of conquests.
Your income
As a relationship progresses, it is natural that a couple grows familiar with each other's finances. But in the early stages of dating, there is a very sound and reasonable argument for playing your personal monetary value close to the vest.
Your weakness
Maybe you can cry during insurance commercials, or maybe you aren't really as self-confident as you make yourself out to be in public. These frailties don't matter as long as she never finds out about them. If she does, she'll start making all sorts of 'cute' jokes at your expense. Be strong and keep your weaknesses undercover.
Your weird fantasies
Certain fantasies should be shared and enjoyed together. But you may be into freaky stuff that she just wouldn't understand. Maybe your sexual fantasies involve things that your lady will not appreciate. Well, there's a good chance that she won't. Once she knows what dark thoughts are running through your mind, she may head for the door faster than you can say 'gimp'.
Your ex-girlfriend memorabilia
You might have kept pictures of your exes. Maybe you've stashed away their love letters. You might have a whole database of their names and personal information in an excel spreadsheet. Whatever the case, never let your current squeeze find out about your memorabilia. Even if she's willing to leave the past in the past, you can bet that she won't balk at dropping their names as ammo in future fights.
Your embarrassing moments
We've all had them. Especially the severe, crippling embarrassment, on the scale of having an ex posting an indecent picture of yours online. If you've suffered this kind of monstrous humiliation, she should not get a whiff of it. The idea of it and the accompanying visual will surely blow your cool factor right out of the water, and leave your woman killing herself with laughter.
Your cheating past
Maybe you were just a conniving player back in your life. Or you might have had complicated issues with an ex that drove you into the arms of another woman. The reasons and can be many. But, no matter what the reasons, no matter how strong your determination is to mend your ways and get a clean start with someone new, your cheating past is something that you never want to reveal to your lady. She'll automatically think that you're looking to score behind her back every chance you get, and you'll never get a fair play from her again. Men think that revealing that just complicates the situation.
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Michael Douglas is a dating expert and he is the owner of Love-Lectures.com where he offers free dating hints and tips for yet another successful date. Also, he provides free relationship advice and love advice to help you in building healthy and successful relationships.
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